Welcome to the club no one wants to join. I am hoping this blog will help you in your path to healing.
I'll post stuff here about my own struggles and pointers on the healing process. Others are encouraged to comment and share their own stories.
There is a resource page where websites and books will be posted which can help you on your own journey.
I am not a computer forensics person but I will post some techniques I know about computers. You're your own moral guide when it comes to this information. I highly recommend you do not pursue these activities... Work on communication and get the answers to your questions from your wayward spouse. That is the best way forward..